Wednesday, May 26, 2010

May Picture Post

Playing with the rocks

Helping daddy put together the new mower.

Playing with the rocks...again.

He loves to have his shirt off

Playing in the grass waiting for daddy to pick us up in the tractor.

watching daddy work.

waiting to give daddy his lunch.

having fun in the car seat.

eating his favorite meal

playing with his cowboy hat.

Friday, May 14, 2010

South Dakota Living - 42 lessons

It's been a little over a year ago now since we moved from the big city of Peoria, IL to our small little country town in South Dakota. Here is a list of 42 things I've learned since becoming a resident to a small (and I mean small) South Dakota town.

1. A trip to Target or Walmart consists of a 90 mile trip one way and a full day gone.
2. Our local grocery store has 4 aisles (I didn't know that was even possible before I experienced it myself)
3. Everyone waves to everyone when you are driving whether you know them or not.
4. A cart at our local grocery store can just barely fit an infant car seat with no groceries. Not a big deal now that Josiah can sit in the cart by himself but not quite sure what I will do when and if we have another child.
5. Everyone expects that you will have a garden. Not a bad thing just something I've noticed.
6. You will meet very few people who do not do something in the line of farming or ranching.
7. Planning an event does not go well unless it is planned on a Sunday because there is no such thing as a 9 to 5 job out here.
8. The whistle blows at noon (literally! I thought it only happened in the movies)
9. Most local stores are closed at lunch time.
10. The bank seems to be open for an hour a day (not literally but every time I try and go it's closed already)
11. All stores really are closed on Sunday so if you need any groceries you better get them the day before.
12. You have to make sure to check the expiration date on food before you buy it at the local grocery store. I can't tell you how many times I've bought something only to find out when I get home that it is months over the sell date. Not joking I bought some pancake mix that was a year past the due date.
13. Living next to your in-laws in amazing! I seriously love it so much!
14. You still get your groceries bagged and carried out to your car.
15. It's the kind of place where people know who you are, and notice if they don't.
16. Your "neighbor" may very likely be someone who lives 6 miles from you.
17. This year's graduating class was 14.
18. You can rent a 3 bedroom country home with yard as far as your eyes can see for under 300 dollars.
19. People don't seem to retire. An 80+ year old is still fully capable of running a farm/ranch (Brett's grandparents are a perfect example)
20. You don't have to worry about your friends moving away...those who are here are usually here to stay. (unless you are a certain Dunlap friends that moved here with no intention of farming or ranching)
21. Opening hunting weekend is basically a holiday.
22. Seeing a rifle in an entry way is a normal occurrence.
23. Culture shock is not just for going overseas.
24. Getting stuck in traffic consists of being stuck behind a tractor going 10mph.
25. We still have drive-in theaters!
26. I've learned the true meaning of a "farmers tan"...getting ready to see one on my good-looking husband soon :)
27. Seeing a "real" cowboy is normal everyday life.
28. We bought our first pound of hamburger in over a year. Normally our freezers are always stocked with hamburger, steak, and soup bone...just waiting until another cow is ready to butcher.
29. A windy day brings on complete new meaning to me. (our garbage can and grill have been 50 yards away on a frequent basis.)
30. You burn your own garbage. I'm yet to see or hear of a garbage man.
31. Praying for rain brings on new meaning. Also, praying for it to stop raining we can get back in the fields.
32. My "neighbors" who live 6 miles are long distance to call.
33. Living without a dishwasher really is as bad as it sounds :)
34. Not only is it legal to shoot our state bird but it's a social event.
35. Tree's are few and far between out here.
36. You don't lock your car doors, heck you don't even take your keys out of the ignition.
37. A pick-up is a pick-up and a truck is a semi.
38. Most everyone owns at least one pick-up.
39. Advertised events are announced in both Central and Mountain Time.
40. Football consists of 9 players on the field. This is something I had never heard of.
41. Storms are really scary out here because you can see them from miles away.
42. It's impossible to keep your vehicle clean due to all the dirt roads.

Despite the images that might come into your head when you think of South Dakota...This land is beautiful and as my husband always says, "this land is God's hidden gem". Come out and visit and experience it for yourself, but don't say I didn't worn you on a few things :)

It's only been a little over a year that I have been a South Dakotan and I still have a lot to learn but I'm thankful that this is where God has taken our family. If you made it to the end of this post congratulations! Your award is a casual wave as we drive by each other!

Bumpers?

After much contemplation before Josiah was born we decided that we would put a bumper in his crib until he started to move around. My mother who so graciously helped me put together a bedding set pieced together a patchwork for Josiah's bumper pad. Long story short...we ended up taking the bumper out of his crib long before he was even moving (mostly because I was annoyed with it when it came to changing the crib sheets).

I feel I must add before I say anything else that my mother did a wonderful job at making the bedding. I choose an array of fabrics that posed for some difficulty in the completion of the project. And because of a few bad measurements and forgetful minds we had to sew a few parts on the bumper pretty tightly. Once again, long story short there are places in the bumper that are coming apart and could probably be easily torn apart and shredded by a little one year old boy who likes to break things when no one is looking :)

Anyway, this lack of a strongly put together bumper would not be an issue if it weren't for this...

I must admit that he started to cry about 20 min. before I was going up to go
to bed and I didn't think much of it because he is teething (yet again) and I
thought that was why he was crying.

This is a very regular occurrence with Josiah. This particular picture happens to be from last night when I went into his room before I went to bed to do my normal check on him and to put his blankets back on him. This then brings me back to my bumper or no bumper question for ya all. I know there is a lot of debate as to if there should be a bumper in a crib because it poses risk of suffocation. I've thought about the netted ones you can buy because they are then breathable but after checking into them they are very expensive (because it appears you have to purchase two sets in order for it to go around your whole crib which ends up being around 60 dollars). I'm not sure what to do but think I'm going to have to do something so we don't have a child stuck between the rails all the time. Any advice anyone?

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

learning

Gosh, I can't believe it has been a month since my last post. It seems as though so much has happened and that life has been completely busy as the days have flown right on by and yet I can't seem to think of what all has happened in the last month. Isn't it funny how life can do that to a person? It's not that I have simply forgotten about the blog or that absolutely nothing has been happening to write about, it's more like I just have no idea where to start.

I guess I will start here...

This month has been a month of ups and downs as I'm learning how to be a godly wife, mother, and child of God. Since moving to a new state and having a new little life in my life I've found that I've really struggled with finding my place in this world that I long to not be a part of. Does that make sense? I've struggled with finding a balance between daily life (i.e. house chores, playing with Josiah, fellowship with friends, serving, time with my husband and adequate time with the Lord). I just can't seem to figure it out. If I'm honest with myself and all of you my time with the Lord (what's supposed to be the most important part of the day) I've skipped over more times than I can count. I hate admitting that to myself and most off all to everyone who reads this. I've been encouraged lately by my dear husband and some really great friends that nothing during the day could be more important than spending that time with the Lord. Even if it means that I don't get some other stuff done. Thanks to those of you who I have found encouragement in. Many of you probably have no idea that you have even been an encouragement but I thank the Lord for you in my life in whatever way that maybe, big or small, I'm blessed by you in my life.

1 Peter 1:6-7
"In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith- of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire- may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed."


I'll end here before I allow myself to make this once again a very lengthy post.

Although I do have a couple updates with Josiah...
1. He is now drinking from all kinds of sippy cups!!!
2. He has taken a couple of steps by his self and seems to have no fear of it.